How To Know He Doesn't Want A Relationship...

Not every guy can give up his freedom to be in a relationship except he loves the girl , can't bear to lose her or see her with another guy..
But when these signs ain't there and he isn't ready for any relationship whatsoever here are clues..
1. I understand . When a man says he doesn't want to be in a relationship the first thing for you to say is I understand. Then say nothing else, pause, wait and then magically because you didn't say anything else he will begin to say more and explain his reasons.
If at no point you do argue with him or try to discount and change his mind you will have accomplished step one. By saying when he is finished " I understand" he will think you understand him which will be a great relief to him and he will begin to relax and open up to you. Congratulations that was not easy.
Step 2.
I want generally. After he thinks you understand him and you haven't tried to change him he will want to have sex with you. When he does, tell him all the things you like and appreciate about him. Then say the magic word however followed by "I've made a commit to myself not to have casual sex. The next person I have sex with will be with a man who wants to build with me."(don't be a slot and say okay let's begin you will look cheap) then look off in to the distance. This is where he gets the chance to be your hero because he is attracted to your virtue and confident self love and men want to be your hero. Men marry virtue.
Step 3.
Say nothing more. At this point he may attempt to argue with you at which point say I understand. You have planted the seed and believe me he has heard you. By letting him know what you want generally in life and not specifically with him you give him the opportunity with no pressure from you because you know that if it's not him it will be someone else to make having a relationship with you his idea.